Knowing how to stay consistent is one of the best skills you can master to be successful and happy in life. Consistency is one of the main pillars of effective and joyful manifesting.
And in this post, I want to teach you exactly how to stay consistent without burning yourself out so that you experience daily progress and fulfillment.
Feeling you’re on the right path and moving forward is a beautiful manifestation of itself…
So how to create your own energetic consistency system you love? You see, there’s always a sweet spot for everything. And to discover it, we need to mindfully combine the metaphysical and practical…
It is my intention that after reading this blog post, something inside you will shift and help you find your own way to be more consistent. Because when you discover your own way to be consistent, you will fuse yourself with the process, and it will feel like you’re a part of something bigger…:)
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How to Stay Consistent Using the Magic Triangle Method
I love bridging the practical with the metaphysical because everything is beautifully interconnected. Sometimes, we need to do more mindset and energy work and use it to fuel our actions. And sometimes, we need to think less and do more.
I always say that success (including how to stay consistent) is a Magic Triangle of:
-mindset,
-energy,
-and strategy.
These 3 components work best in connection, which is how you can make quantum leaps.
I know I might be overgeneralizing here and putting people in boxes….
But from my personal experience, I’ve observed that very often, spiritual seekers spend way too much time in energy work and spiritual activities, to such an extent that they get a bit spaced out.
I’m not judging; just observing, and I’ve been there as well, haha!
But, in the Universe, everything has structure and consistency. The sun doesn’t meditate for days or get countless astrology readings done to feel ready to rise and shine. And it also knows when to get rest.
At the same time, some readers may be too much in a hustle, get-things-done mode. And I have been there, too, and as a result, I’d worked myself to exhaustion and couldn’t even enjoy the financial abundance I was working so hard for 🙁
So, in the end, I had an awakening and decided to fuse the best of the two words- spiritual energy work and alignment (feminine energy) with practical and enjoyable systems to get things done and stay consistent (masculine energy).
This is the mindset I operate from now in my life and business projects. This mindset helped me ignite my spiritual experiences, such as experiencing daily miracles, feeling connected and guided, and being well taken care of.
This feeling helps me persevere and be resilient (while feeling good) even when my 3D reality is still not precisely as my desired reality.
This is important because people often give up too soon just because they use their 3D reality as a guide (instead of using their desired dream reality as fuel to be more consistent!)
So, this is my overall framework. I intend to apply good energy to everything I do and always find something to be grateful for.
My spirituality is my fuel. But it’s also fueled by my daily actions.
These actions are grouped into different categories, such as my daily meditation, walk (or workout at home), and EFT tapping to be my best emotionally, mentally, and physically. Then, I also take daily systematic actions focused on writing and developing my professional projects.
Each workday has the same structure of things I get done in the same order. But thanks to following this structure, I create free time, and I use it to be spontaneous, see friends, read books I feel like reading, go out, hang out with family, etc.
So, by following the same action-based structure every day, I also create space for being spontaneous. During my free time, I like to tell myself that I’m making an opening for the Universe to do its part 🙂
I know I did my best during my productive hours, and now it’s time to let go. Sometimes, I also like to tell myself that I’m letting in a fantastic team of angels and spirit guides to help me.
Creating an organized, yet spiritually flexible structure has been one of the best achievements in my life, seriously. It makes me feel good and excited.
I no longer fear returning back home from my vacations. In fact, I love my consistent routine so much that I look forward to it!
I used to struggle with working on a schedule and being disciplined. I used to say: “Oh, but I am a creative and free spirit. Discipline would destroy my creative and spiritual nature” .
And so I spent years living with no daily structure and just feeling so miserable because I couldn’t grow, and nothing in my life was moving forward. I knew I had so much to share but could never get down to sharing anything…☹
Ultimately, everything comes down to understanding this magic triangle of success and integrating it into your life. I hope you can get inspired by my story and create your own adaptation of the magic success triangle!
Once again, success is: mindset, energy, and strategy😊
So, let’s apply it to be more consistent when manifesting.
Let’s dive deeper into each component of our magic triangle!
Secret #1 Aligned Consistency Mindset
Yes, it’s good to learn about creativity, productivity, discipline, and whatnot, but remember that the most important thing you can do is to observe yourself, your preferences and what kind of routines make you feel good. Most self-development resources out there focus on a one-size-fits-all recipe…
And yes, it may work for some or be a good place to start.
But if you want to make quantum leaps in whatever you desire to manifest, you need to unleash your own way to be consistent. Which, as I’ve already mentioned, is my main intention for writing this post.
And I’m not going to write about productivity apps (personally, I’m not using any, my best app is staying connected to the Universe), but everyone has different preferences. My main job is to help you dive deep so you can find joy in staying consistent by finding your own way and system.
It may take a few attempts and some testing. But when you finally design your perfect routine, it will feel good and exciting. It will also free up a ton of your energy. Because you will no longer have to think and plan so much. You will just follow your own system 🙂
So, here’s the first mindset challenge….
You are already consistent; everyone is…But are you consistent with the right thing?
When you think about it, there’s always something we are consistent with.
The question is, is this consistency in alignment with our higher values and goals?
For example, I used to consistently attract drama and negativity. Because, back then, my daily actions, thoughts, and vibrations were tuned into attracting drama.
I was consistent with going out with negative people, I was consistent with not taking care of my body, I was consistent with not investing in my self-growth, and so all my small, daily decisions would finally manifest into a lack of energy, anxiety, drama, and negativity…
Looking back, I admit I was very talented at being consistent but not with the things that were good for me and my desired manifestations, haha!
One day I said to myself: “Well, Elena, at least you are consistent at something. And you are manifesting something. But…how about changing our focus and being consistent with things that are good for us? So that we can manifest consciously and transform on a deeper level?”.
It felt good, like a nice, motivational pep talk, and inspired me to change my life. I did some cord-cutting with my old self and decided to look for new, empowering habits I could slowly but consistently start implementing in my life.
So, Dear Reader, if you discover you’re consistently doing the wrong thing, don’t beat yourself up. Be good to yourself. Tell yourself: “Well, at least I’m already consistent; it’s just that now, I need to start aligning my daily habits with what I want. And I will love myself unconditionally as I go through this process and be my best cheerleader.”
Never beat yourself up about your past. It’s all about learning; sometimes, we learn from our mistakes and unaligned decisions. We were not fully conscious when we made those decisions, but now we are.
I am here to tell you that you can keep changing every day, unleashing the next positive level of the Law of Attraction while joyfully witnessing how it works in your favor and amplifying your positive efforts. After a while, your “efforts” will feel effortless because they will be a natural extension of your New Self.
For example, I now consistently practice gratitude, eat a healthy diet, read positive books, and meet like-minded people. I am also consistent at creating content and doing the work I love. And so, I am manifesting positive events, good energy, meaningful friendships, and abundance.
This blog is also a manifestation of my aligned consistency and a desire to create an online LOA library that people from around the world can benefit from in different stages of their journeys.
I know the Universe responds to my energy and vibrations, so I consistently send out the best I can by striving to become my best every day.
Both old Elena and new Elena were consistent. We are always consistent with something…
However, at some point in my life, I was forced to dive deep and start making inner changes to align my consistency with positive daily habits that would lead to conscious, positive manifestations.
The keyword here is conscious.
So, before exploring different ways to stay consistent at something, you need to identify what kind of life you desire to manifest. This is the mindset work that can’t be skipped. It will serve you long-term. What are your true goals, dreams, and desires?
Creating a manifestation list or vision board may be helpful for you at this stage 😊
Check out my detailed guides for more inspiration:
Manifestation Board Secrets to Create Your Dream Life
How to Write a Manifestation List to Create Your Dream Reality
Oh, and one more thing I’d like to add to my story…staying consistent consciously; that is making it my mission to be consistent in doing the things I love and things that serve me, my life, my health, my abundance, and my wellbeing is way easier and effortless than trying to stay consistent doing something just to produce quick results to impress others.
So, it’s all about developing the right focus, to begin with!
I highly recommend you read my previous post on staying focused when manifesting because it will help you dive deeper and discover whether you’re actually manifesting your own or someone else’s goal.
It will also help you establish energetic boundaries (not having boundaries destroys focus, consistency, and positive momentum).
To sum up – identify what you’re already consistent with and if it’s serving you long-term or not.
If it doesn’t, make an intention to release it or replace it with a more empowering habit.
If it does serve you, it is a motivator to keep adding more positive habits and actions to your daily routine.
Now, we’re going to dive into your energy and strategy.
As I’m writing this, I intend to connect with my readers and the various desires and lifestyles they may be desiring or prioritizing.
And I feel inspired to add that:
#1 Some of my readers do not have any particular goals, such as money or career goals, at this stage. They just want to keep experiencing a magical life or unexpected, positive manifestations.
In that case, you may want to focus more on energy work and staying consistent, improving your energy daily and applying it to whatever it is you’re doing.
Because you can still be doing your usual stuff, such as attending to your everyday tasks and going to work but keep changing your energy.
As you stay consistent, the Universe will respond!
#2 Some readers may have specific goals they desire to manifest, for example, earning more money, creating a business, changing their job, building an audience, or becoming successful in creative or artistic projects.
In that case, I think it’s pretty common sense you can’t skip the strategy part because you will need to take daily actions to get closer to your goal, and you will need to be consistent.
You will need to build new habits around your desired manifestations.
You will also need a new self-image. So aligned strategy is important, and energy and mindset work will help you create an amazingly empowered routine!
Secret #2 Fuel Your Energy with This Magical Ingredient
Whatever action you take during the day, whether it’s one of the scheduled actions you take in alignment with what you desire to manifest (such as a workout plan, yoga, meditation, creative endeavors, or business projects) or other actions you take (such as cleaning, driving to work, walking around your neighborhood, reading or listening to music, or eating), BE GRATEFUL and keep amplifying this sense of gratitude.
Gratitude is the best energy work you can do because it eliminates worry and anxiety.
And you can’t manifest effectively if you’re constantly worrying about not having your desires yet or living in lack.
Gratitude always makes you feel abundant and full of miracles. Never take anything for granted.
Let’s say that your desire is to manifest an amazing YouTube channel. You are a content creator. And so, your daily actions focus on creating content (more on creating aligned strategies and structures in the following secret).
You may have a big goal to manifest 100K or even 1M subscribers, and that’s great. You know the importance of “acting as if,” and you put aligned efforts into creating the best content possible.
So how can you fuel your actions with gratitude-amplified energy work?
Be grateful for every subscriber and every comment you receive. Even if a comment is not positive, be grateful and send out love and blessings.
You can be grateful that you understand that some people are in a negative place and need more love, so by doing your work, you help more and more people reach a certain level of awareness and compassion. You can be grateful for the opportunity to send someone love.
Even if it feels like you’re far from your ambitious goal of manifesting a 1M subscriber YouTube channel, let’s say that you have 453 subscribers now; you can still be grateful.
That’s 453 unique souls who came across your work for a reason; you attracted them. Imagine you give a seminar to 453 people, and you can see their faces, and they ask you questions. Yet so often, the online world changes everything, and we compare ourselves to others and lose the attitude of gratitude.
If there’s ONE thing I want you to take away from this post, even if you are not clear on your goals yet, even if you don’t know what to create your aligned strategy around, it is to… be grateful.
Stay consistent with being grateful.
This energy pillar of the Magic Triangle fuels your mindset and strategy, no matter what you do.
Like I said, maybe you’re just happy living your life. You’re satisfied with your job, your income, and your home. You’re not a very materialistic person. Or perhaps you created the success you desired and are now more focused on spirituality.
Whatever it is for you, gratitude always takes everything to a new level of pure magic.
Speak gratitude, think gratitude, and write gratitude 😊
Even if you stay consistent with just one thing – GRATITUDE while still doing your everyday tasks and attending to your job and obligations, something in your life will change.
Your happiness and inner abundance will reach a new level…The Universe will notice…
I’ve spent years studying manifesting, LOA, spirituality, self-development, and all approaches, from science-based to woo-woo. If there’s only ONE thing, one method I could take to a desert island, it would be GRATITUDE.
But don’t take my word for it. Do it, practice it, and embody it. And take it to the next level!
Now, let’s talk about an aligned strategy to create daily actions to manifest your dreams. This is definitely for you if you are a student, a creative, a businessperson, a writer, or have another ambitious goal you desire to manifest!
However, you could also use it to be consistent with inner work or any manifestation method of your choice. How about staying consistent with, for example, nice daily walks accompanied by an inspirational audiobook? Think about how much you can grow in a year if you just keep filling your mind with positive content while, at the same time, exercising your body.
An aligned strategy works for all kinds of goals. Money, health, fitness, and self-development…
Secret #3 Aligned Strategy – Activating the Compound Effect
Now that you understand the mindset and energy behind staying more consistent, this part should feel effortless.
When I say effortless, I don’t mean that we get lazy or get stuck in the energy of waiting 🙁
This is probably one of the most misunderstood parts of the Law of Attraction.
We don’t attract what we want; we attract what we are.
A friend of mine recently told me that he would like to write spiritual content and he would like to channel a Higher Power.
And so, he’s waiting…and he’s been waiting for years!
I realized long ago that if you want to be a channel for something bigger, you must position yourself as a channel for something bigger.
Because a Higher Power is always waiting to be channeled through someone….
Imagine you are some kind of a Higher Power, cosmic energy, or spiritual being. You’re floating around the quantum field, thinking: “I have some messages I’d like to share with people on Earth. I want to bring joy to millions of people.”
Now, since a Higher Power/Universe always chooses the most effortless way, chances are, it will select someone who’s already actively and consistently practicing their trade.
Whether it’s writing, creating music, art, or something else.
So, a Higher Power that desires to express itself through someone to bring joy to people on Earth will likely choose a person who’s ready to channel. Because those ready to channel will not reject a Higher Power or Spirit with excuses like:
“Oh, I don’t feel inspired today!”
The spirit would probably reply: “Oh, I feel ignored. You say you’re not inspired, so you’re not in spirit. And I am here, telling you to write/channel/create. What else do you need?
Anyway…I have an important meeting in the quantum field with some big cosmic shots later on, and I really need to let my stuff out. So, let me find another channel who’s already sitting in their office and ready to write or create….”
That is why you need daily mindful discipline around your desired goal or desire.
For example, I show up for my writing daily. Some days, when I’m really pressed for time, I might do just 15 minutes of writing. That’s my intention. But I still do it. So, I sit down, get my headphones, and choose one of my favorite focus/concentration tracks.
I keep affirming that I am consistent, show up, and am ready 🙂
Of course, 15 minutes is not enough to write a long blog post like this one.
But I know that when I show up, I attract ideas and can at least create a list of different topics or write a quick outline.
After years of showing up for my passion, I know I now have processes and structures that are unique to me. It doesn’t make sense to try and teach them to others because I believe each person needs their own process. So, I know I can help someone just by encouraging them to be themselves and show up for whatever they desire to accomplish daily.
The Universe will take note, and so will others.
Keep putting one foot in front of the other daily.
What is your daily energetic minimum and maximum of time to put into your dreams and passions so that you can stay consistent, no matter what?
So, let’s get back to our earlier example of someone who desires to be a YouTuber. Let’s say that person is you (YouTube is an example here, so replace it with any other creative or business project you are into).
You start now! You set aside some time, even half an hour a day, and move forward. You can create a quick video on your phone, introduce yourself to your audience, and then upload it to YouTube. Or, you can write an outline for your video or brainstorm topics. Or perhaps you can play around on the YouTube platform, open a creator account, and watch some training videos.
Whatever makes sense to you.
I’ll mention here that it’s crucial to stay consistent and not fall into the trap of infinite learning. Yes, education is important, but remember about your main thing. Following our example, it’s creating, uploading, and perhaps optimizing your videos for titles, search engines, etc.
The most important thing to remember is to do your part and show up for your daily actions with a big smile on your face.
Then, the compound effect will take over 🙂
Yes, half an hour a day may not be enough to write an article or create a long video.
But 30 mins x 7 (or even 6 if you choose to take Sundays off) is= 180 mins. That’s 3 hours.
So, even if you do only 30 mins a day, you can still create tangible, weekly results.
Apply this strategy to whatever it is you’re doing.
Do your best, and keep going and growing 😊
Recommended Books to Stay Consistent
3 excellent books come to my mind as I write about aligned strategy:
–Big Magic by Elisabeth Gilbert
This book goes deeper into the concept I briefly touched on before… if you want to channel something big, you need to show up as a channel and start expressing your gifts as soon as possible!
–The War of Art by Steven Pressfield – This book is written from a solid but balanced masculine energy that advocates the same approach- to be a pro, you need to stay consistent at being a pro.
Committed creators have a daily schedule they follow. Wannabies talk and look for excuses.
Pros understand the power of consistency!
–The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy – is a very inspiring and practical book that dives deep into different manifestations created by consistency. It illustrates different scenarios, both what can happen if we stay consistent in doing things that serve us and things that don’t serve us…
The bottom line is if you do something every day, you become a pro. And eventually, you open yourself up for channeling something bigger. Your mindset, skillset, and energy evolve to new levels and heights, and you create your own systems that are unique to you.
That’s my intention for you, but you need to make the first step and decide to stay consistent.
Here’s my favorite motivating and empowering exercise to help you stay more consistent:
Imagine you show up for yourself and your desired project daily. And you keep going; you’re staying consistent and doing your part. At the same time, you stay open to the infinite possibilities and help offered by the Universe, your angels, and divine forces…
How do you think your life will change in the next 5 years? Visualize that change! Imagine all the fantastic opportunities you can’t even comprehend yet…imagine becoming an expert…and the compound effect of raising your vibration daily by doing what you love and showing up for your passion or goal!
Let’s do this; let’s keep going!
Here’s to joyful and conscious manifesting,
Your daily “mini” manifestations are already compounding into a massive miracle you can’t even comprehend yet.
Promise yourself to stay consistent by mindfully fusing the mindset, energy, and strategy concepts shared in this post.
With love and gratitude,
Elena,
Your friend and guide in conscious manifesting
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